Bump SQLite to 3.42.0 on Windows and macOS installers

[erlend-aasland]

SQLite 3.42.0 was released recently. Let's just bump the installers now. If patch releases appear (they probably will), we can just bump those during the beta.

See also #102997 (comment)
cc. @felixxm

Linked PRs

• gh-104623: Update macOS installer to SQLite 3.42.0 #104624
• gh-104623: Update Windows installer to use SQLite 3.42.0 #104625
• [3.11] gh-104623: Update Windows installer to use SQLite 3.42.0 (#104625) #104633
• [3.11] gh-104623: Update macOS installer to SQLite 3.42.0 (GH-104624) #104643